Self-control

Self-control is a very important trait for a fulfilling life. According to Wikipedia, self- control is described as the exertion of one’s own will on their personal self – their behaviors, actions and thought processes. All so often, people find that they are in the situation where a number of things will stimulate them to do something that may be inappropriate or undesirable. If they really take actions without considering it properly, the consequences might be very serious. An old Chinese proverb says: Impulsion is the devil. It blinds one’s mind and consciousness, and releases people’s emotions too wildly, letting it flood all over. However, self-control can help to let people calm down, stay patient and think again. Self-control works like a cushion or spring, letting strong emotions better settle down. It earns sufficient time for people to reconsider the situation before any actions are taken. Furthermore, self-control is based on self-awareness and self-acknowledgment, thus it lets people have a better idea about what they want and in what ways they can achieve their goals. Since self-control helps people to know their emotions and how to handle strong emotions, it is of great importance in a fulfilling life.